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The Groomsmen Checklist

The checklist no groomsmen should go without. From attending the bachelor party to escorting the bridesmaids, here’s what you need to know.



The Groomsmen Checklist

o      Attend engagement party

o      Meet all members of the bridal party

o      Attend the bachelor party (help best man plan the party)

o      Attend rehearsal dinner. Prepare toast

o      Get fitted for tux. Pick up your tux or suit a couple days before the wedding

o      Arrive to church on time. Usually 1-2 hours early

o      Serve as usher -  greet guests, handout programs and escort guests to their seats

o      Escort bridesmaid partner down the aisle or walk with the groom

o      Stand up for the groom during the ceremony

o      Stand in receiving line; greet guests, give guests table number or handout favours at reception

o      Get ready for the limelight! Be introduced at the reception

o      Dance with bridesmaid partner for the bridal party first dance

o      Help carryout gifts to car after reception

o      Help clean up after the reception

Send thank you note for groomsmen gift


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